Super mom Vs Super dad, the fact in the family

September 25, 2008 · Filed Under about husband 

What is in your mind when you hear a word “Super mom”? So many people assume that she is the successful house wife and also has bright career outside. As the point, she has amazing achievements in these two worlds which often make every woman in confuse.

Is it right that she is really “super”? According to my opinion, there is no such a Super mom! That is only a title for a women who has more capability for all what she does then any other woman. In society circumstances, housewife is only considered as women with domestic problems only and forgets how to dress up. This kind of women mostly considers about the good family is about well organize home.

And the rival, about what we call “public woman”. They have job outside such as artist, business woman, or department officials. They are considered as independent woman, beautiful, know how to dress up, assertive or even aggressive, but the household is not well organized. They though that the house is not her responsibility so she gives it to other people such as maid or servant.

Actually, two kinds of women cannot be united in one’s body. That’s why, women who are able to handle the house and career in the same time is considered as super mom even finally she has tough mental and physical problem. She has to handle all stuffs by her own.
She has to handle housekeeping job by her own that consume almost all of her times and she has to handle the outside job in the same time, it is really exhausted! That is why she needs some one else to help.

Inside Circle

For the fluent work, Mom needs good managerial ability. She needs help from others for household area such as maid or servants, nanny, gardener and driver. In the office, she has some assistants to help her work. The ability to manage the all assistants is the way how she is called super mom.

She needs support from all people around, mostly from the spouse. When someone is a wife, Husband is in inside of her life’s circle. It means he is the closest person. That’s why if they have bad chemistry and synergy, super mom will get collapse.

The support that super mom needs from the spouse is about understanding and help. For the example, if she is tired, she needs the spouse doesn’t bother her with any request or grumbles. It will be better if the support is not only moral but also financial and other more.

When super mom is tired, the spouse can offer massage on the shoulders or feet. Or, when super mom is in the kitchen and has limited time, the husband can help taking care of children. Taking some drinks to the table, or not being fussy while having meal are also kind of support for super mom.

Super dad Works

So, there is no such a super mom without super dad around her. Besides being a husband, he has to press his man ego to help the household. That is why husband and wife have to know each other personality.

Beside that, know what is one’s priority and supports each other will. When husband and wife can cooperate well together, they can be great couple. So, if super mom leaves for several days, she needs no worry.

The second support is from the children. When they are going raise up, just ask them to talk and discuss about why mom has to work. When you cannot attend the school meeting, you can ask them for apology and give logic explanation.

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